Why the back burner is no place for dreams.
Ted is a 40-something person who has lost his way in life. Ted has a good job and a family for whom he provides, but somehow this is not enough. Ted doesn’t feel like he has accomplished anything important.
You see Ted has exchanged his dreams for an easier life. He has ample justification for this sacrifice (job security and family commitments). He never intended to get off-track. It just happened overtime.
Yet as he grows older Ted finds it harder to rationalize his choices. A nagging sense of dissatisfaction permeates his life. He would like to change his situation, but he no longer has a vision of his own.
People lose their way because they take the path of least resistance. They fail to understand that this actually involves the most pain.
To get on track Ted must find a way to reignite his purpose.
A small project, like starting a blog or practicing a skill, is a good way to get started. As Ted goes along a positive feedback loop may lead to him “discovering” his life purpose. Even if it doesn’t, Ted’s new skills and accomplishments will enhance his way of living.
The moral of this story is don’t be like Ted.
Don’t sit around waiting for the right moment to get started, because that moment may never come.
The trick is to show up even when you don’t feel like it. Don’t sit around waiting for the moment you feel like doing that thing you committed to do because that moment may never come.
Make no mistake: showing up is a superpower.
Six years ago I took a long, hard look at my life. I thought about where I was, where I wanted to be, and how I was going to get there. It was like a switch had flipped and my ability to overcome self doubt supercharged.
Since then, I have trained to run full marathons and climb rugged peaks. I have studied acting and performed on stage. I have completed a postgraduate degree and changed my career. I ended a long-term relationship and started dating again.
My only regret is that I didn’t do much of this sooner!
No matter what your goal, your skills will amplify once you put them into active use. Getting started is the hardest part. Once you do you’ll be glad you did.
These are the thoughts I would like to leave you with today.